First Steps – May 16, 2022

May 16, 2022

At a recent graduation ceremony for a daughter of a family friend, the CEO of UPS gave the address. She inspired the graduates to Lead to Inspire, Serve to Create and Give to Remain. Over this past weekend, I reflected on her words. Though she has a very accomplished resume, she realized her work recorded would never be the same as a legacy. What remains is not a work record but a legacy.

What do you want your legacy to be? What do you want others to remember about you? Great questions! I think borrowing her words would do well. Lead to inspire people so that they are better because they knew you.  Serve others to create space and possibilities for those around you. Give to things that will long outlive you. You donā€™t have to be a CEO of a Fortune 500 Company to have a legacy. Begin now! Lead, Serve and Give.
 



This Week’s Readings:
*Monday – Matthew 3
*Tuesday – Matthew 4
*Wednesday- Matthew 5
*Thursday – Matthew 6
*Friday- Matthew 7


Prayer Requests:
*Our Confirmands and High School Graduates as they transition.
*An immediate end to the crisis in Ukraine.
*Heal those who are sick and protect those who are not.
*Comfort those who are grieving and in distress.
*Give our leaders extra wisdom as they navigate this pandemic and economic uncertainty.
*Help for those seeking to find their way.
*Continued Growth Inside and Outside the Walls of St. Paul UMC.

ā€œDonā€™t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done.ā€ – Philippians 4:6


First Steps – May 9, 2022

About 18 months ago, a friend of mine shared these statements with me:

I canā€™t_____but I canā€¦
We donā€™t have____but we do haveā€¦
My people wonā€™t_____but I can lead them toā€¦
This wonā€™t work______but what would work isā€¦
People wonā€™t like it if_____but God will love it ifā€¦


She was facilitating a conversation around leadership with a group of pastors. Lately, I wondered if these same statements could apply to relationships. Many times, relationships fall into ruts. The parties involved didnā€™t plan on a rut. It just happened, little by little. Words like ā€œI canā€™tā€ or ā€œit wonā€™tā€ or ā€œI donā€™tā€ frame a personā€™s outlook and can negatively influence the future of relationships.

Sometimes, a change in vocabulary can lead to a change in outlook which starts a new pattern. Try it and see. First, notice the ā€œI canā€™tā€, ā€œit wonā€™tā€, and ā€œI donā€™t.ā€ Then substitute with ā€œI canā€¦,ā€ ā€œthis willā€¦,ā€ or ā€œI willā€¦,ā€ and see what happens.

When relationships are detailed in ruts, someone must be the more mature one to begin a new pattern. Often, a new pattern can begin with a new word.






This Week’s Readings:
*Monday – 2 Corinthians 11
*Tuesday – 2 Corinthians 12
*Wednesday- 2 Corinthians 13
*Thursday – Matthew 1
*Friday- Matthew 2


Prayer Requests:
*Our Confirmands and High School Graduates as they transition.
*An immediate end to the crisis in Ukraine.
*Heal those who are sick and protect those who are not.
*Comfort those who are grieving and in distress.
*Give our leaders extra wisdom as they navigate this pandemic and economic uncertainty.
*Help for those seeking to find their way.
*Continued Growth Inside and Outside the Walls of St. Paul UMC.

ā€œDonā€™t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done.ā€ – Philippians 4:6


First Steps – May 2, 2022

The other day I went to the mall.  It has been years since I went to purchase something at a mall.  How things have changed because when I was a teenager, I think I went to the mall each weekend.  Often, my friends and I would go to the mall just to walk around and visit with other friends.  It was our hangout!  

During my recent visit, I thought about those directional signs that were strategically placed to help people shop.  If you wanted to find a particular store, this was your guide.  The sign had a map of the mall with a large arrow that said, ā€œYou are here.ā€  It was your starting point to find your way.  Without it, one would be lost.

Godā€™s work of transformation has a starting point.  It might not be a sign with a giant arrow, but there is a starting point for each person which is the same:  Honesty.  John Calvin said, ā€œA person can only know God to the degree they know themselves.ā€  The Holy Spiritā€™s work begins when we are honest with ourselvesā€”this is who I am.  Without honesty, denial reigns and we play games with God and other people.  We run from who we are.  We present to others what we think they want or will approve.  Godā€™s work of redemption begins with honesty.  It is our starting point.

Maybe God is showing you a sign:  You Are Here!  Donā€™t run from it.  Sit for a while, and begin with honesty on the path to wholeness.





This Week’s Readings:
* Monday – 2 Corinthians 6
* Tuesday – 2 Corinthians 7
* Wednesday- 2 Corinthians 8
* Thursday – 2 Corinthians 9
* Friday- 2 Corinthians 10

Prayer Requests:
*An immediate end to the crisis in Ukraine.
*Heal those who are sick and protect those who are not.
*Comfort those who are grieving and in distress.
*Give our leaders extra wisdom as they navigate this pandemic and economic uncertainty.
*Help for those seeking to find their way.
*Continued Growth Inside and Outside the Walls of St. Paul UMC.

ā€œDonā€™t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done.ā€ – Philippians 4:6


First Steps – April 25, 2022

Alfred Nobel, founder of the Nobel Prize, said, ā€œIf I have a thousand ideas and only one turns out to be good, I am satisfied.ā€  I wonder how many people believe this to be true.  Does the same approach apply to the spreading of the gospel?  If you asked a thousand people to believe, join you for worship, participate in a Bible study, serve in a mission, and only one person responded, would you be satisfied?  On one hand, the answer would be no.
 
However, what if that one person who responded experienced conversion which led to a changed life.  Thinking of the Nobel quote, I am reminded of a parable Jesus told in Luke 15:3-7:
 
Then Jesus told them this parable: ā€œSuppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesnā€™t he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ā€˜Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.ā€™ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.
 
Perhaps this should be our response and maybe one person is enough to be satisfied.  The real issue is will you reach out with the gospel until one lost sheep is found? 





This Week’s Readings:
* Monday – 2 Corinthians 1
* Tuesday – 2 Corinthians 2
* Wednesday- 2 Corinthians 3
* Thursday – 2 Corinthians 4
* Friday- 2 Corinthians 5

Prayer Requests:
*An immediate end to the crisis in Ukraine.
*Heal those who are sick and protect those who are not.
*Comfort those who are grieving and in distress.
*Give our leaders extra wisdom as they navigate this pandemic and economic uncertainty.
*Help for those seeking to find their way.
*Continued Growth Inside and Outside the Walls of St. Paul UMC.

ā€œDonā€™t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done.ā€ – Philippians 4:6


First Steps – April 18, 2022

In 2003, the San Francisco Zoo had forty-six penguins that spent most of their lives inside the zoo. They were well-fed, lived free from predators, and lived in a controlled environment. As one could imagine, they became very lazy. They spent most of their days lying around and would seldom engage others or swim. However, in that same year, six new penguins were introduced to the sanctuary. These new birds spent all their time swimming only quitting at dusk due to exhaustion.

The new birds didnā€™t let the inactivity of the older birds determine their behavior. They wanted to swim. Eventually, the persistence of the new birds affected the older birds. Little by little the older birds started to join in and swim.

I think this is a modern-day parable. There will always be resistance to change. There will always be those who desire the path of least resistance. However, it doesnā€™t have to be you. Because God has called you to live a certain way, be a certain person, then live into what God desires. Eventually, it will affect others. Transformation is a daily process, little by little, bit by bit. The more you stay the course, the more it will influence another.




This Week’s Readings:
* Monday -1 Corinthians 12
* Tuesday – 1 Corinthians 13
* Wednesday- 1 Corinthians 14
* Thursday – 1 Corinthians 15
* Friday- 1 Corinthians 16

Prayer Requests:
*An immediate end to the crisis in Ukraine.
*Heal those who are sick and protect those who are not.
*Comfort those who are grieving and in distress.
*Give our leaders extra wisdom as they navigate this pandemic and economic uncertainty.
*Help for those seeking to find their way.
*Continued Growth Inside and Outside the Walls of St. Paul UMC.

ā€œDonā€™t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done.ā€ – Philippians 4:6


First Steps – April 11, 2022

Yesterday wasĀ Palm Sunday, a day where The Church remembers and celebrates Jesusā€™ triumphant entry into Jerusalem.Ā  It is also a day that marks the beginning of Holy Week, the last week before his death.Ā  What do you think Jesus thought as he rode the donkey into the city?Ā  As he saw the people waving palm branches and heard their cries, ā€œHosanna,ā€ I wonder what Jesus pondered.
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Was he melancholy? Ā Was there a peaceful acceptance of what was to come?Ā  Did he silently think of the capriciousness of humanity where there were shouts of joy one day only to be shouts of crucifixion the next?Ā  How did he balance the determination that would lead to a cross with all its pain with the desire to fulfill Godā€™s design for salvation and the joy of accomplishment?
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I believe a reoccurring thought was pure love that is far greater than one can imagine.Ā  I hope Jesus was sustained by the endless, far-reaching love of the Father and the intimacy that existed between the Father and the Son.Ā  In a mystical union of divinity and humanity, the incarnate Jesus rode a donkey into a city with the knowledge and acceptance that his life was a ransom for many.Ā  How grateful I am for such a love.



This Week’s Readings:
* Monday -1 Corinthians 7
* Tuesday – 1 Corinthians 8
* Wednesday- 1 Corinthians 9
* Thursday – 1 Corinthians 10
* Friday- 1 Corinthians 11

Prayer Requests:
*An immediate end to the crisis in Ukraine.
*Heal those who are sick and protect those who are not.
*Comfort those who are grieving and in distress.
*Give our leaders extra wisdom as they navigate this pandemic and economic uncertainty.
*Help for those seeking to find their way.
*Continued Growth Inside and Outside the Walls of St. Paul UMC.

ā€œDonā€™t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done.ā€ – Philippians 4:6